<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post6932871256270622816..comments</id><updated>2011-07-13T16:13:18.645-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Silliman&#39;s Blog: </title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/feeds/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html'/><link rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/"/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>33</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-3341666829254901947</id><published>2008-12-28T00:36:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-28T00:36:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I never met Emma, but I drove Charles around Oahu ...</title><summary type='text'>I never met Emma, but I drove Charles around Oahu in 1993.  At the end of a long day of touring, he whipped out his wallet and pulled out a picture of Emma.  He glowed.  That&#39;s my strongest memory of her, through him.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/3341666829254901947'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/3341666829254901947'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1230442560000#c3341666829254901947' title=''/><author><name>Susan</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/11149093537815104761</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-916968898"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 28, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-3595583953268630758</id><published>2008-12-27T17:21:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-27T17:21:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>My most sincere condolences.</title><summary type='text'>My most sincere condolences.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/3595583953268630758'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/3595583953268630758'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1230416460000#c3595583953268630758' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-328297626"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 27, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-5530399230566581543</id><published>2008-12-27T09:50:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-27T09:50:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I just heard this news last night, and it&#39;s terrib...</title><summary type='text'>I just heard this news last night, and it&#39;s terribly sad. I first met Emma the year she, Charles, and Susan lived in Buffalo, which must have been 1990, when she would have been five years old, a bright-eyed, vivacious child. I remember that summer passing the family sometimes while they were sitting outdoors on the street in a Buffalo restaurant where Emma and Susan would be playing and Charles </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/5530399230566581543'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/5530399230566581543'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1230389400000#c5530399230566581543' title=''/><author><name>mark wallace</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/10047292022080114501</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://www.avecbooks.org/images/markwallace.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-476913415"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 27, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-832706565549655677</id><published>2008-12-25T18:20:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-25T18:20:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I would like to add my condolences to Charles Bern...</title><summary type='text'>I would like to add my condolences to Charles Bernstein and to those who are mourning.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/832706565549655677'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/832706565549655677'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1230247200000#c832706565549655677' title=''/><author><name>Anny Ballardini</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/03754012903840285259</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://www.thedrunkenboat.com/smballardini.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-1921499998"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 25, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-8280211620919945434</id><published>2008-12-24T14:55:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-24T14:55:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Charles posted this info on his blog with informat...</title><summary type='text'>Charles posted this info on his blog with information on services:&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;http://epc.buffalo.edu/authors/bernstein/blog/archive/emma-bee-bernstein.html</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/8280211620919945434'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/8280211620919945434'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1230148500000#c8280211620919945434' title=''/><author><name>Abecedarian/f(x)</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/01913278950823273657</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-1091123171"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 24, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-7392269369409727676</id><published>2008-12-24T12:01:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-24T12:01:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>utterly sad...unutterably sad.</title><summary type='text'>utterly sad...unutterably sad.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/7392269369409727676'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/7392269369409727676'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1230138060000#c7392269369409727676' title=''/><author><name>Al Filreis</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/17361573484797020525</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='19' src='http://www.writing.upenn.edu/~afilreis/Images/portrait-for-home-page.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' 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Our heartfelt condolences t...</title><summary type='text'>What an enormous loss. Our heartfelt condolences to her parents and those who loved her. We are so sad.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Susan Larson &amp;amp; Tom Lewis</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/2459430270575855413'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/2459430270575855413'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1230063720000#c2459430270575855413' title=''/><author><name>lalepro</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/16652113188398593305</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-607742984"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 23, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-5524941441478203463</id><published>2008-12-23T09:50:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-23T09:50:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>So sorry to hear this sad news. My heart goes out ...</title><summary type='text'>So sorry to hear this sad news. My heart goes out to you who loved her.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/5524941441478203463'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/5524941441478203463'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1230043800000#c5524941441478203463' title=''/><author><name>Robin</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/15073960668480704066</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://theothermother.typepad.com/pearlandbaba.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-1292981653"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 23, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-4202705453230199131</id><published>2008-12-23T00:51:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-23T00:51:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This is shocking saddening news. All my best go ou...</title><summary type='text'>This is shocking saddening news. All my best go out to Charles, Susan and their family. As a former student of Charles&#39; it grieves me to know that a man so generous with his talent and time should suffer a loss as great as this.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/4202705453230199131'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/4202705453230199131'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1230011460000#c4202705453230199131' title=''/><author><name>Abecedarian/f(x)</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/01913278950823273657</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-1091123171"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 23, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-2280286064954673515</id><published>2008-12-22T21:35:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T21:35:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Ron:The abrupt emptiness.  How did she die?  Accid...</title><summary type='text'>Ron:&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;The abrupt emptiness.  How did she die?  Accident or illness?  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;As you know, my only son died in an auto accident 12 years ago.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;You never get over it.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/2280286064954673515'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/2280286064954673515'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229999700000#c2280286064954673515' title=''/><author><name>Curtis Faville</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/06213075853354387634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-1900230786"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-2318604051021018673</id><published>2008-12-22T20:52:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T20:52:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This is heartbreaking, profoundly sad.  --David Ke...</title><summary type='text'>This is heartbreaking, profoundly sad.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;--David Kellogg</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/2318604051021018673'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/2318604051021018673'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229997120000#c2318604051021018673' title=''/><author><name>Hermagoras</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/15863777697055352607</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-616769328"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-4496027241289682237</id><published>2008-12-22T19:44:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T19:44:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>i have created a group on Flickr to share photos o...</title><summary type='text'>i have created a group on Flickr to share photos of Emma. please feel free to add any that you have.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;http://www.flickr.com/groups/930403@N25/</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/4496027241289682237'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/4496027241289682237'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229993040000#c4496027241289682237' title=''/><author><name>Samuel</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/15985654436368211526</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-593395963"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-881530994141705907</id><published>2008-12-22T16:55:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T16:55:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Portrait of Emma Bee Bernstein by Charles Bernstei...</title><summary type='text'>Portrait of Emma Bee Bernstein by Charles Bernstein, 8-29-07&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SnHtG-iR5lw</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/881530994141705907'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/881530994141705907'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229982900000#c881530994141705907' title=''/><author><name>mIEKAL aND</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/06751318628910534959</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-25262584"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-4567754299953417211</id><published>2008-12-22T16:31:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T16:31:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Most heartfelt condolences to Charles, Susan, and ...</title><summary type='text'>Most heartfelt condolences to Charles, Susan, and family. This is a terrible, sad loss.  My heart goes out to you.&lt;BR/&gt;Steve</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/4567754299953417211'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/4567754299953417211'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229981460000#c4567754299953417211' title=''/><author><name>Steve</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/12130438006583799672</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cDVl_fkIEzw/SUbWPJf2dvI/AAAAAAAAABU/GaFCYqNZS9I/S220/steve_ygb8.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-253862874"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-2898189836216962056</id><published>2008-12-22T13:57:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T13:57:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>May I add my condolences to Charles and Susan. My ...</title><summary type='text'>May I add my condolences to Charles and Susan. My heart breaks just thinking of this unbelievable loss. As the Irish say at times like these, &quot;Sorry for your trouble.&quot; So deeply sorry. And may you both find the strength and the courage to get through it, and may the love and affection of family and friends, old and new, help you to.&lt;BR/&gt;Michael</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/2898189836216962056'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/2898189836216962056'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229972220000#c2898189836216962056' title=''/><author><name>Lally</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/05310472614196384595</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='21' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_1UZ-EklSnDQ/STxRa1OLwHI/AAAAAAAAAN0/zHELoZegR_Q/S220/me+at+Wallys.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-778757446"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-5420469368288821247</id><published>2008-12-22T13:51:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T13:51:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>What devastating news and an unfathomable loss to ...</title><summary type='text'>What devastating news and an unfathomable loss to our community. My heart goes out to Charles, Susan and our sweet community. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Tracie</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/5420469368288821247'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/5420469368288821247'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229971860000#c5420469368288821247' title=''/><author><name>Tracie</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/12964778240719197070</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://www.thedartmouth.com/photos/2002/01/25/2002-01-25arts2_1.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-222725143"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-3799530251723621748</id><published>2008-12-22T12:55:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T12:55:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>my children born 1979 and 1981 ...every day I lear...</title><summary type='text'>my children born 1979 and 1981 ...&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;every day I learn from/through them&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;now, it seems, every day another yartzeit candle to light.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;just looked at current issue of         HOW2 &lt;BR/&gt;               postcard&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;for first time... nicely done</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/3799530251723621748'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/3799530251723621748'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229968500000#c3799530251723621748' title=''/><author><name>Ed Baker</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/11285310130024785775</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='24' src='http://bp1.blogger.com/_SpwtdDR0utk/R3Owpv1OTyI/AAAAAAAAAAM/5uapZyaJmtY/S220/Ed++by+Evie+Baker'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-771816173"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-3111926206130231953</id><published>2008-12-22T12:40:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T12:40:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh my god.</title><summary type='text'>Oh my god.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/3111926206130231953'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/3111926206130231953'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229967600000#c3111926206130231953' title=''/><author><name>Tim</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/13026955797817424956</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_i7YncY_VhDg/SH4Xufff3cI/AAAAAAAAAEk/VSb9HneH018/S220/IMG_2614.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-353852049"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-3667044800201587256</id><published>2008-12-22T12:33:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T12:33:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This is shocking news, devastating. My deepest sym...</title><summary type='text'>This is shocking news, devastating. My deepest sympathies to Charles, Susan, &amp;amp; family. - Marc Nasdor</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/3667044800201587256'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/3667044800201587256'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229967180000#c3667044800201587256' title=''/><author><name>Marc Nasdor</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/08426172062765133597</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-300377553"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-4997620753774070855</id><published>2008-12-22T12:21:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T12:21:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Condolences to all, especially Emma B.&#39;s immediate...</title><summary type='text'>Condolences to all, especially Emma B.&#39;s immediate family.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I knew her not except via her and her friend&#39;s girldrive posts, which were (are) a fantastic take / update on that most classic americana custom, road-tripping discoveries.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/4997620753774070855'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/4997620753774070855'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229966460000#c4997620753774070855' title=''/><author><name>Steven Fama</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/13733977161680651117</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-862679579"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-2301413521342472624</id><published>2008-12-22T11:49:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T11:49:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I knew Emma as a bright and spirited teenager duri...</title><summary type='text'>I knew Emma as a bright and spirited teenager during her years at Friends&#39; Seminary. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Words are inadequate to such loss.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Sympathy to Charles and Susan and their families.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Diana Morris Manister</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/2301413521342472624'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/2301413521342472624'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229964540000#c2301413521342472624' title=''/><author><name>Diana Manister</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/18337577356237998370</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-881595609"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6643432611176773178</id><published>2008-12-22T11:22:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T11:22:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>My condolences, Charles and Susan. All our thought...</title><summary type='text'>My condolences, Charles and Susan. All our thoughts are with you at this devastating time.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/6643432611176773178'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/6643432611176773178'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229962920000#c6643432611176773178' title=''/><author><name>ljs</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/12788869184713346996</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-1925256763"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-952738700532589925</id><published>2008-12-22T10:49:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T10:49:00.001-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Every parent&#39;s worst nightmare. Since my kids were...</title><summary type='text'>Every parent&#39;s worst nightmare. Since my kids were born in 78 and 81, all I can say is this is way too young. I offer not only condolences, the need for them will pass, but a fervent hope there will be sufficient strength for the long run.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/952738700532589925'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/952738700532589925'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229960940001#c952738700532589925' title=''/><author><name>John B-R</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/01041221232768939991</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-574567698"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-7453277731148619225</id><published>2008-12-22T10:49:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T10:49:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This is shocking, awful news. My thoughts and emot...</title><summary type='text'>This is shocking, awful news. My thoughts and emotions are with what i know to be a loving family. What a bright light.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/7453277731148619225'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/7453277731148619225'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229960940000#c7453277731148619225' title=''/><author><name>Al Cohen</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/16137450524147548608</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-1601902172"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-8890323312922154506</id><published>2008-12-22T10:33:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-22T10:33:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Terrible, unfathomable, heartbreaking news.  My co...</title><summary type='text'>Terrible, unfathomable, heartbreaking news.  My condolences, too, to Susan and Charles.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/8890323312922154506'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/6932871256270622816/comments/default/8890323312922154506'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html?showComment=1229959980000#c8890323312922154506' title=''/><author><name>Don Share</name><uri>https://www.blogger.com/profile/03446230480847015806</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='https://ronsilliman.blogspot.com/2008/12/emma-bee-bernstein-1984-2008.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3738579.post-6932871256270622816' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3738579/posts/default/6932871256270622816' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.itemClass" value="pid-1011881777"/><gd:extendedProperty name="blogger.displayTime" value="December 22, 2008"/></entry></feed>